Archive for November, 2007

Bitter to Better

Ernest Hemingway tells the story about a young man who wrongs his father and then runs away from home to Madrid. Out of great love for his son, the father posts ads in a half dozen or so Madrid newspapers.

“Paco, meet me at the Hotel Montana, 12 noon Tuesday. All is forgiven. Papa.”

When the father gets to the hotel, he finds 650 young men named Paco waiting for their fathers.

Forgiveness, it seems, is a universal human need. At its core it is the need to be pardoned, to be released from the emotional strain of having wronged someone or having been wronged by someone. At its essence it means going from bitter to better.

Forgiveness requires an emotional correction. It is an empathic response to a wrong doing. It constitutes an act of extraordinary consideration which oftentimes seems much too lenient, if not down right foolish. But forgiveness is not a doormat philosophy. Forgiveness doesn’t mean consent. Forgiveness is an act of release. Essentially it is emotional amnesty. It is truly going from bitter to better… from adversary to ambassador.

That’s what Fiorello La Guardia, Mayor of New York did when he relieved a judge for the evening and took the bench himself in one of the poorest wards of the city. A case came up where a grandmother had been arrested for stealing bread to feed her grandchildren.

La Guardia told her, “Unfortunately, you are guilty, and I’ve got to sentence you. I’m fining you $10 or 10 days in jail.”

And then LaGuardia pulled a $10 dollar bill out of his own pocket and gave it to the astonished grandmother.

“I’m going to forgive you this time,” said the Mayor, “but I don’t want to see you here again.”

Then he fined everybody in the courtroom for helping to create a city where grandmothers have to steal bread to feed their grandchildren.

The bailiff passed the hat and the woman left the courthouse that evening both reprimanded and thankful. Not only had her fine been paid, but she left with $47.50 in her purse.

“We must forgive as we would be forgiven,” says Emile Cady in her classic Unity book, Lessons in Truth. “To forgive does not mean to arrive at a place of indifference… To forgive is to give some definite good in return for a wrong experienced.”

“Emotional wounds cannot heal until we forgive, “says Rosemary Ellen Guiley, in her book Prayer Works. “When we forgive, we experience a tremendous healing of body, mind, and spirit. It doesn’t matter whether we forgive a fresh wound or an old hurt; the liberating effect of forgiveness is the same.”

Jesus was asked by Peter in Matt. 18:21-22: “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy times seven.”

The Christ’s answer in verse 22 is somewhat startling. If taken literally it appears we are being asked to forgive as much as 490 times. But we’re missing the point if we think Jesus is talking about a literal number.

Forgiving someone – or asking someone for forgiveness is an extraordinary human act of compassion and surrender. And yet it is something we must do for our own good…for our own sanity… for our own peace of mind. Forgiveness frees us from the past and keeps feelings of revenge, resentment, and anger from eating at us, from cannibalizing us.

There is another, more profound, meaning for forgiveness. Metaphysically, forgiveness means giving up the false for the true. Another way of saying that is it means giving up our fixation with fiction. The kind of fiction we’re referring to is our attachment to anything which blocks our spiritual growth.

And if it takes 7 times, or 700 times, or 7,000,000 times – to give up a false belief, to give up a false conclusion, to give up a self-defeating course of action or long-standing resentment, then that’s the amount of time Spirit gives us to get it right.

And getting it right means forgiving it right… right from the get go. That means going from bitter into better.

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Awful to Awe-ful

We’ve come to the conclusion that we think you should have an absolutely AWEFUL day today… We’re serious! We hope you have an AWEFUL day!

We want to be clear about what we are proposing. The kind of aweful we’re talking about is spelled AWEFUL… as in AWESOME! We want you to have awe-filled days the rest of your lives. Here’s a neat story to illustrate the awesomeness of going from AWFUL to AWEFUL.

Lightning struck a huge tree up ahead and sent it across the rain-soaked road. The driving rain was falling like liquid bullets. As the driver slowed to a stop, trying to figure out what to do next, another bolt of lightning struck a tree behind the SUV and fell across the road, trapping the driver and his very, very, very pregnant wife on Rt. 54.

Her contractions were minutes apart and he had to get her to the hospital. He got out of the truck to access the situation and instinctively ducked as another lightning strike splintered a towering pine tree nearby.

A few moments later, soaking wet, he jumped back into the truck.

“Honey, we’re trapped. There’s ditches on both sides of the road and the trees are so huge they’re blocking the road in both directions.”

“Thank God they didn’t fall on…” she stopped as one of her contractions hit, “fall on us!” she whispered.

“I’ve got to get you to the hospital,” her franticed husband announced.

Just then a pickup truck pulled up. The driver saw their predicament, told them to stay in the SUV, and explained what he was going to do. In no time at all he had the tree ahead of them cut into enough pieces to clear the way for them.

He refused any payment. He said he was going to stay long enough to clear the other tree out of the road too. Then he gave the couple a tattered business card sized note.

Worn and creased with age, the inscription on its face, dulled by the touch of many fingers read:

You’ve been helped in some way today by a Good Samaritan. In lieu of payment, please pass on the favor to someone else

The couple looked at each other and smiled their gratitude – and their surprise. Their old website address was on the back of the card. They had 1,000’s of the cards printed up themselves years ago after they had seen the hit movie Pay It Forward. Their own thoughtfulness and generosity had turned what could have been an awful experience into an awesomely AWEful experience.

2000 years ago, Jesus the Christ walked many a storm-tossed road Himself. He had plenty of opportunities to turn awful experiences into AWEful experiences. He raised the widow of Nain’s son, (Luke 7:11), Jairus’ daughter (Mark 5:22), and Lazarus (John 11:1) from aweful experiences – they had all died! Their resurrections were AWEful experiences.

He healed lepers (Luke 17:12), a blind man (John 9:1) another blind man at Bethesaida (Mark 8:12), a blind man named Bartimaeus (Matt. 20), a deaf mute (Mark 7:32), a Roman officer’s servant (Matt. 8:5), two people with demons (Mark 5; Luke 8), a paralyzed man (Mark 2, Luke 5), a woman who touched His cloak (Matt. 9, Luke 8); and hundreds of other awful health conditions in His time.

Metaphysically, no matter how dulled, deadened, or comatose we become (that’s what Jairus’ daughter, the widow of Nain’s son, and Lazarus represent) we can be resurrected by the power of Spirit. No matter how sick we are mentally, emotionally, or physically, we can be healed.

No matter how far gone you think you are, the Christ in you can raise the deadened you, the frightened you, the vulnerable you. By the power and might of the Indwelling Christ within you can pray yourself, meditate yourself, visualize yourself, will yourself, affirm yourself, diet yourself, exercise yourself, and divinely order yourself into wholeness and happiness.

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Alchemy of Health

Our bodies are our biological address. How long we live there and how well we live there pretty much depend on us. Some people are in constant triage. Others enjoy perpetual health. For many people, a balanced diet is a beer in one hand and a pizza in the other. No matter how we treat our bodies though, we all have two things in common when it comes to health: Our bodies will last a lifetime – and our lifetimes will last as long as our bodies.

The alchemy of health is a mind, body, spirit equation. When all three are balanced we have perfect health. If they are out of sync, we end up like the character in the New Testament Gospel of Matthew who is paralyzed and can’t walk. (Matt.9:2-8)

The literal interpretation of these scriptures is fairly straightforward. The man is lowered through the roof and according to his faith and those who lowered him, is healed. It’s a poignant story, but its deeper metaphysical meaning takes its 21st Century worth to a whole new level of understanding.

  • The Paralyzed man represents crippling thoughts that keep us stuck and immobilized, unable to move toward our good
  • People carrying the paralyzed man = faith-centered thoughts refusing to see anything but wholeness
  • Process of lowering man through the roof = a Divine Idea coming into our Christ Consciousness
  • House = human consciousness
  • Scribes = organized worldly thoughts
  • Bed or mat = comfortable assumptions, badge of lack consciousness
  • Earth = physical body
  • Home = Headquarters, the Kingdom of Heaven
  • Son of Man = that within us that knows the difference between truth and error; our enlightened personality that seeks oneness with our Christ Nature
  • Evil = thoughts which deny our divinity
  • Your sins are forgiven. Stand up and walk home = Eliminate your error thinking (give up the false for the true). Behold your wholeness by going to Headquarters

When we step out on faith and choose wholeness, despite the appearance of extremely challenging or immobilizing situations, we can transcend any of our crippling thoughts and habits, because there is that within us that knows the difference between truth and error. We’ve got two choices: we can deny the power of outer appearances or affirm our wholeness by recognizing the awesome power of our Christ Nature. That’s what Jesus meant when He said, “Which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven’ (Deny the power of outer appearances) or ‘Stand up and walk’ (affirm your wholeness)?

All healing, emotional and physical, is the restoration of the harmony between us and our I Am Presence. It is a cellular connection. Healing is restoring wholeness. And wholeness suggests a pre-existent completeness. This completeness is the truth of us. The truth of our completeness does not depend on us. It’s there whether we believe it’s there or not. But the health of our cells, atoms, and molecules depends on the healthiness of our thoughts, images, and intentions.

Here’s the key to an alchemy of health: We cannot think Truth and error at the same time; so we cannot manifest Truth and error at the same time. Health follows Truth and sickness follows error. If we want the abundant life we’ve got to make choices that sow abundance. If we want health, wealth, and prosperity, we’ve got to make choices that sow health, wealth, and prosperity. All we have to do is eliminate our error thinking, take a stand for Truth by going to Headquarters (the Christ Presence within)…

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American Idle

Over the last six seasons hundreds of thousands of young people have tried to become the ‘next American Idol.’ They have come from all walks of life, from all 50 states, and from all levels of singing ability – or no singing ability – if you know what I mean.

But they all have the same dream – stardom! And the same nemesis – Simon Cowell. Regardless of what you think of the show, the contestants, or the judges, it is entertainment Hollywood style.

Randy Jackson prides himself in being the chief dog. Paula Abdul is both maternal and compassionate. And Simon Cowell invariably offends everyone, including his fellow judges, with his caustic feedback.

Each week the contestants are judged by Randy, Paula, and Simon, and millions of people who text or call in their votes. The contestants are pushed through a media gauntlet filled with sarcasm and praise, and occasionally helpful feedback from the judges.
American Idol is great entertainment, but it is also an apt metaphor for a great truth walk. Each week the contestants are judged on three key performance factors: they’ve got to pick the right song, use good vocals, and be themselves so they can demonstrate their uniqueness.

Those same three factors define our truth walk. The quality of our truth walk depends on how well we do all three. And how well we do all three determines whether our truth walk is on track or on idle – IDLE.

Walking the spiritual path on practical feet requires what could be termed spiritual orthopedics. If we want to step confidently and lively toward the kind of life we want to live, we must make sure our thoughts and actions are congruent with the truth principles we have learned.

It doesn’t matter if we’re stepping on bare feet or shod feet, big feet, small feet, white feet or brown feet or red feet or yellow feet, tired feet or energetic feet. Each step is a tithe toward our spiritual growth. Or toward our stagnation if we stand idlely by, because we neglect to put truth principles into action.

We strive every day to:

  • pick the right song – seeing everything from our Christ perspective
  • use good vocals – using powerful affirmations and positive words, and
  • be ourselves so that each of our me’s is the best me we can be

Have you heard people say, “I’m trying to be more spiritual, but life keeps getting in the way?”

Dan Millman has an interesting perspective on that which is, as Simon Cowell would say, “Spot on!” Millman says in his book, No Ordinary Moments: “Someone once said to me, ‘I’d love to live like a peaceful warrior and do more spiritual practices, but with a family to support, and a fulltime job, I just don’t have the time.’”

He didn’t realize, says Millman, that his family and job – his relation-ship with his wife, the responsibilities of children, and the pressures of his profession – were his spiritual practice.”

The truth is, our truth walks are never on idle. We may think we’re going nowhere spiritually, but everything we do has spiritual implications.

In his delightful book, Buddha is as Buddha Does, Lama Surya Das, who has been called the American Lama, has this to say:

“The Dalai Lama taught me that the spiritual jewel that brings us all we need and seek is the unselfish heart and compassionate mind. These are what Buddhists call indispensable highest intentions, which come from the good heart, our best self, our innermost Buddha-being.” Sound familiar?

We can use those same terms to define our innermost Christ Self. And we can express our innermost Christ Self best when we:

  • pick the right song using our Christ perspective
  • use the right vocals by affirming our oneness with Spirit, and
  • be our true selves, our divine selves, in this earthly performance we call human beingness

Going from idle – IDLE – to I do – DO – is a command performance.

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