Archive for December, 2008

What Jesus Might Say to Santa Claus

Wednesday, December 17th, 2008

Someone only has to say: “Ho, Ho, Ho,” and you know instantly who they are imitating. Santa Claus, Old St. Nick, Kris Kringle, Sinter Klaas are all titles we give to the omnipresent, legendary, white-bearded bearer of Christmas gifts — the embodiment of the spirit of giving.

But Christmas has become big business. Retailers have not been selling the ‘giving spirit’ — they’ve been selling the ‘buying spirit’ — for centuries. We’ve lost sight of what the real St. Nicholas gave us — the gift of giving — unselfish, spirit-filled giving.

So, what would Jesus have to say to St. Nick’s highly commercialized 21st Century, decked out in red Ho, Ho, Ho, counterpart Santa Claus? If Jesus would write today’s Santa Claus a letter, we think it would go something like this:

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Dear Santa:

Rather than tell you what I want for Christmas, I have the gift of an invaluable piece of advice for you: Please — remember who you really are! You know, the authentic Saint Nick and I are kindred spirits . . . we have a lot in common! We both represent unconditional giving — and both our images have been misinterpreted and confused as time has passed. You and I, we’ve both been used to create guilt trips — which was never our intention — and folks seem to think we have nothing better to do than maintain lists of good and bad behavior — as if that were the issue at all! It is so important for you to keep your focus, and continue to do what it is you are here to do — spread the spirit of joy and unconditional giving to the world. And by the way, you’ve got to stop eating all those cookies and milk treats!

Here’s how I wish people would give – Unconditionally!

  1. Unconditionally give of their Time
  2. Unconditionally give of their Talents
  3. Unconditionally give of their Treasures.

Santa, you can help people get this message, if you remember who you really are!

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Since Jesus is speaking to the Santa in each of us — that part of us that really does understand the spirit of unconditional giving, but sometimes forgets — let’s see how we can take His advice to heart this holiday season!

  1. Give of your time: Time is such a valuable commodity. We are so caught up now with the gadgetry and intricacy of electronics that we’ve actually put ourselves into a time trap! We are more pressured and rushed than we’ve ever been. We worry so much about what gift to buy for people who do not need anything. What if we gave the gift of our time? How often has a loved one said to you, “I don’t need a gift. Your presence is all the presents I need!” Let’s believe that — and look for ways to give the gift of our time this season.
  2. Give of your Talents: What are your unique gifts, and how could you use them to bring joy and love to others? Consider this: What do dolphins; pool plastic, Guinness Book of World Records, and a herdsman from Inner Mongolia have to do with giving of your talents? They all shared the same article in a news story: The herdsman’s name is Bao Xishun. At 7-foot-9, Bao was confirmed by Guinness Book of World Records as the tallest living man in the world. His arms are 41.7 inches long! What made him important in terms of giving? It seems some dolphins had gotten seriously ill after nibbling on plastic from the edge of their pool at an aquarium. Surgical instruments could not extract the material (because of the shape of the dolphin stomach it is difficult to push instruments very far without hurting the animals), so vets decided to seek the help of Bao Xishun. He was able to reach his arm into the stomachs of the sick dolphins and remove the dangerous material! His unusual arms became the saving mechanism for the dolphins!What are your talents — and how can you use them to reach out to others, bringing joy and love?
  3. Give of your Treasures: The critical issue here has nothing to do with the amount of money you have — it is the generosity of your spirit in giving what you possess. We saw a perfect example when we had lunch recently at a Cracker Barrel restaurant in Mebane, NC. Our waitress was just great — fabulous energy, beautiful spirit, and very talented at her job. She made us feel so welcome as she served us with such joy. We were led to give her an unusually large tip, in recognition of the way she served us! When she saw her tip, she thanked us profusely — then excitedly told us that she was using all her tips this week to purchase things for children whose names were on the Angel Tree at the restaurant. Sure enough, we saw the tree, and when she opened her order book, there were four cut-out angels in her book. She said, “Now I can go get a few more angels off the tree!”

Think about your unique treasures — and how can you see them from a spirit of unconditional giving? Believe us; you will be blessed many times over.

Remember what Jesus said to Santa? That is the identical message for each of us: Remember who you really are! And that will make Christmas, and the New Year, the best you have ever experienced!

Welcome back!

The Metaphysics of Frosty the Snowman

Wednesday, December 3rd, 2008

What do an old silk hat, corn cob pipe, button nose, and boots have in common?? They all belong to a lump of snow called Frosty, the Snowman.

To the general public, Frosty the Snowman stands for joy. The joy of living. The joy of laughter. The joy of hearing children play. The joy of spontaneity. The joy of meaningful work. The joy of being with the people you love. Frosty, the Snowman symbolizes all of that. He is joy personified.

Most people, when they hear the words, Frosty, the Snowman, break into a smile. A gleam appears in their eyes. Children ages 3 to 93 identify with Frosty’s playfulness and zest for life. But Frosty represents much, much more.

When the traditional Christmas story is read, it’s either the Gospel of Matthew or Luke that are used. In each of these Gospels you find beautifully-told pieces relating the miraculous birth involving both the Divine and the human. The authors of Matthew and Luke also seek to place the birth of Jesus in a particular historical and cultural setting. Jesus is the son of poor Jewish parents, but is also described as a descendant of Israel’s greatest king, King David. His birth is given a definite time and place.

But, there is something totally different in Jon. There’s no nativity, no shepherds, no Magi, no star in the sky, no heavenly hosts, not even so much as a Mary and Joseph.

John’s gospel instead is some rather esoteric sounding language about something called “The Word:” “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God” Several verses later you read, “And the Word became flesh and dwelt amongst us” Then, not too many more verses after that, Jesus is suddenly baptized and begins his ministry. If John’s account were all we had to go on, we might be celebrating Christmas a little differently.

What John’s Gospel tells us is the Word became real, became flesh, became incarnatedand became a living, breathing part of us.

Christmas is an incarnation story. It is the saga of the Incarnating Christ in each of us. It is the chronicle of our unfolding Christhood.

So what does this have to do with Frosty the Snowman? Think about it: Frosty came to life one day, dwelt among us and told us It would be back again one day. The metaphor is obvious.

Joyfulness, not struggle, is the message. Laughing and playing, dancing around in a silk hat, ball cap, boots, sandals or barefooted is the message. We are here to enjoy this Earth experience to spend this incarnation, happily, healthily and prosperously to dance and play and create and achieve until we melt away.

From Frosty, we can learn a new set of “Three R’s”:

I. Release any worries about the future, and put your attention on now.

II. Recognize the Source: It’s not in your hat – it’s in your heart!

III. Reaffirm Joy, no matter what!

And KNOW that you cannot be separated from your good, from God, because you and God are one! And that is cause for JOY!